Under normal circumstances a military raid in another country isn't the best option without it being a joint operation, or at least a "heads up" to the country itself.
That's under "normal" circumstances.
Osama bin Laden resided in that Pakistani compound for years. Personally I find it hard to believe there weren't factions in Pakistan who knew, and withheld this information from us. Perhaps it's possible Pakistan didn't know.
Regardless, their complaints are not falling on deaf ears, but not sympathetic ears from my stand point.
If we find out there was Pakistani government or military involvement in hiding him I for one will not call for the United States to quit sending aid to Pakistan.
I suggest a huge "aid package" be delivered, by bombers.